Seems like that sentence is backwards right? It should be “a burger & coke = abdominal pain.” Except last shift it wasn’t. Patient with long standing abdominal pain & nausea of unclear etiology (read: there’s no organic or radiological evidence to suggest a reason for the abdominal pain) with multiple ER and hospital admissions for IV pain control and GI rest. So we throw the bus at her: nasogastric tube for GI decompression/rest (refused), nothing by mouth (complained), IV Dilaudid for pain (Yay!), encouraged mobility, because believe it or not, your gut likes you to walk (refused). Flash forward three days when she finally wakes up out of her stupor when docs decrease her narc dose and lengthen the amount of time in between doses (irate!) and liberalize her food options (your food sucks!). This is generally how these stories play out. And yet I surprise myself because I still get surprised when the first thing they order after DAYS and DAYS OF PAIN AND NAUSEA is a cheeseburger and coke. Two cokes and “put this one in the fridge!”
It’s like a hip replacement wanting to do yoga or a triple bypass itching for some cross fit the day after surgery. Doesn’t happen like that. So if this sounds like you…at least try and fake it, for my sake. Order some jell-o first.
I waited tables and bartended to pay my way through nursing school. I remember thinking, during particularly busy dinner shifts with customers who were high maintenance or angry or demanding or just determined to be unsatisfied, that things would become SO much better when I graduated from nursing school and became a real nurse. NOBODY would order me around, treat me like a servant, talk down to me, attempt to make me feel inferior or repeatedly send me back to the supply area for extra condiments. NOBODY! I would be the EXPERT! I would have POWER! (that I would wield responsibly of course…)
Surprise! Ten years later…I get ordered around, treated like a servant, talked down to, attempted to be made to feel inferior, and repeatedly sent back to the supply room for extra condiments. Except the condiments are drugs. Lots of ’em.
One pet peeve of mine is mispronunciation of medication names. And unnecessary slang usage. From both patient and provider.
As a provider, I think it is essential that we be able to pronounce medications properly. Yes, there are a lot of medications with tongue twisting names, but every medication reference book has some sort of dummy instructions (pro-pee-sha, vie-ah-gruh). Besides…how confidence inspiring is it to have your nurse butchering the names of the medications he/she is giving you? Not at all.
I mean, if my barista called out my caramel macchiato as “care-mall match-ee-ay-tow” as opposed to “car-mul mach-ee-ah-toe” I’m pretty sure I’d think they were on their second day of barista training and that if they can’t pronounce it, how can they possibly create it? And that’s okay really, because caramel macchiatos can’t kill you. But carvedilol maybe can, or digoxin, or lorazepam.
And slang. Oh slang. Just as I don’t walk up to my barista and order a “cuppa joe” or “jet fuel” or “mommy’s milk”, I refuse to be asked for “oxy”. We’re not on the streets here. I’m not selling it to you. I’m administering it. So call it by its proper name, thank you.
I use that word a lot, every day. And not in a genuine, inquiring sort of way.
I use it in an annoyed, “of course this would happen right now” sort of way. No upward inflection at the end of the word that indicates a question. Simply monotone, almost as though it were punctuated with a period. “Really.” The equivalent of slapping my palm to my forehead.
My nurses aide – “amostlyseriousnurse, Mr. J just pulled out his NG tube as I was standing there”
The nurse on my end of the unit – “amostlyseriousnurse, it’s 1.5 hours into my shift and I’m going for a coffee break. Can you watch my group? I have someone’s PCA that’s about to run out and will need to be changed, someone coming back from CT who needs 4 people to transfer and I just put someone else on the bedpan. Oh, and my nurse’s aide is also going on break.”
The doctor I wouldn’t trust to cut my toenails – “amostlyseriousnurse, do you have Mrs. X? I’m not seeing any respirations, can you come verify?”
The phlebotomist – “amostlyseriousnurse, Mr. P is refusing to have his blood drawn.”
The lady who delivers the meal trays – “amostlyseriousnurse, I have a tray for the reverse flow isolation room that you just left.
I just need a sign hanging around my neck that says, “Really” and I’ll do the palm to forehead.
Every hospital probably has their own “code” lingo. Code blue, code 4, code Adam, code brown. It’s usually an overhead page heard round the hospital that alerts particular team members of an urgent situation. Like someone choking on a big bite of cafeteria Philly Cheesesteak (“Code blue, cafeteria!), or someone tripped and fell & couldn’t get up as they were walking up to admitting (Code MET valet parking) or someone was found pulseless/apneic in their hospital bed and needed resuscitation (Code 4, 8East) .
My personal favorite is the code strong, which is our overhead code call for security “show of force”. Show of force is basically several security officers showing up to the scene and trying to intimidate with their sheer numbers…usually two to three in these parts. Really intimidating. Typically, its the patient coming down off their high or sobering up and wondering where the fu*k they are and starting a fight with the first person they see. Sometimes its the sweet little old man who’s post op from a prostate resection who goes delirious from anesthesia & suddenly acquires superhuman strength & demonic possession and rises out of bed a la Linda Blair intent on “getting out of this damn hotel & back to the fish hatchery!!” (yeah buddy, you’re not the first or the last person to think this place is a hotel, and that I am a waitress). Then the sideshow really begins. Within about 5 minutes of calling a code strong, our ragtag bunch of security personnel with their flashlights and 8lb jangly key rings hanging from their belts show up. The security team usually consists of the the 5’1″ token woman, the 64 year old close-to-retirement-osteoporosis-limper and the overweight early 20’s first job huffing/puffing as he gets to the room. They all show up, a royal circus ensues, and you just pray that nobody gets their fingers broken or their tubes yanked out.
My personal favorite , as of late, is “Code strong, Urology clinic”. We stand around, after getting a good chuckle, tossing around possible scenarios that would require a security show of force in a urology clinic.
Surely it’s a man. With a penis. Who doesn’t want anything or anyone coming near it with anything resembling a hose, needle or knife.
If you had a paper cut, would you ask for a slice of lemon to rub on it?
If you had just burned your mouth on scalding pizza cheese, would you quickly grab a swig of hot coffee?
If you had a fresh blister from a new pair of heels, would you put them back on right after it popped and exposed the raw skin?
If your butt smells like something crawled up there and died, would you fart on an elevator?
Then why would you order chicken strips right after you’ve just asked me for a dose of phenergan to take away your ‘nausea’?
Oh yeah…because you’re not really nauseated. And because phenergan makes you feel good. And I must look like I graduated from nursing school this morning before shift change.